Saturday, October 4, 2008

words of wisdom ;)

So what do you do when the person you love is the reason behind all your pain? When things aren't the same anymore & you constantly see yourself striving to maintain a perfect relationship? When you no longer trust that person because their words continuously contradict their actions? Have you ever felt this unbearable pain in your chest, but think to yourself that the pain is worth it because in the end you are still with that person? Whenever they are out, you have a million of ideas just clustered in the back of your mind. You try your best to trust them, but for some reason you just can't. You want them to do little sweet meaningful things, but yet they don't. You find yourself so infatuated with this thing we call "love" that you isolate yourself from everyone & everything you once loved. But in the end, is it really worth all the trouble & sacrifice?

Someday, everything will come together.
But until then, live it up; do what makes you happy.
If someone doesn't agree, then fuck them.
Pick yourself up & deal with it when shit happens.
Remember that mistakes only make us stronger,
everything happens for a reason,
the only regrets you have in life are
the risks that you didn't take,
& well-behaved women rarely make history.
Above all else, go with your gut & guard your heart.

Pretty means that a girl has timeless beauty. She is beautiful now, & she will be beautiful when she's 80. Cute is for the girls with great personality. Girls who are hot don't look good if they go to class in baggy sweats; a bed head without make-up. They're only attractive when they are fully dressed up. Girls who were considered as hot in highschool are the same girls who are no longer attractive at 30.

Sometimes it just takes patience for everything to happen. You won't get respect in just one day, you can't be in love with someone that you just met & you won't be able to forgive yourself in a second. I've learned that helping people is good, but helping someone too much won't let them grow. You grow by making mistakes, getting hurt, & learning from your regrets. Thoughts are there to help guide you to your decision. It's you that have to take that first step into the pathway of happiness. It's your doing that makes you who you are. Don't assume; get your fact straight. That is what messes a lot of people up. There's always the true story & reasoning behind everything. We are all different, but have one thing in common; we all want happiness. It is like we're all trying to fight for it, trying to get what we want & it make us forget the whole reason why we wanted it in the first place. Nobody said life is going to be easy; life is what you make of it. Change for the better; don't change for someone else. Change for yourself. Don't be selfish. Don't limit yourself from doing things just because you don't think you can make it through. Remember -- time isn't going to wait for you, so make the best of it.

Along the way, I’ve learned that you can't let anyone in too far and you can't trust endlessly. The biggest mistake you can make is to care or love someone more than yourself, because then you are just setting yourself up for disappointment. Boundaries are necessary so that you can protect yourself, because once you're broken, you'll never be fully fixed.

Some people believe that without history, our lives amount to nothing. At some point we all have to choose: do we fall back on what we know, or do we step forward to something new? It's hard not to be haunted by our past. Our history is what shapes us... what guides us. Our history resurfaces time after time after time. So we have to remember sometimes the most important history is the history we're making today.

In life, people tend to wait for good things to come to them. And by waiting, they miss out. Usually what you wish for doesn't fall in your lap - it falls somewhere nearby, and you have to recognize it, stand up, and put the time and work it takes to get it. This isn't because the universe is cruel. It's because the universe is smart. It has its own cat-string theory and knows we don't appreciate things that fall into our laps.

Life is a road, a very long road. Don't drive too fast, but don't drive too slow. Remember to always look ahead, but don't forget to look around you at what's there, and occasionally look into your rear view mirror to once again see what kind onf terrain you have ben through, and what it was like. Stop and pick up hitchikers once in awhile, but be careful about who.

Basically, I think love is a feeling. It's a feeling you get when you know you are going to see that person. you're always couting down the minutes, the hours, the days, or even the months until you will see them again. Cause you love that feeling you have when you're with them. you know that butterfly, giggly, warm, this - smile - is - never - gonna - leave - my - face feeling. Love is a feeling of perfect happiness and contentment. Being in the arms means that everything will be okay and even if it's really not going to be, you get a feeling that they'll do whatever they can to make it be, or just to try to make you feel better. It's that feeling that you are loved for who you are and you love them for who they are. Every bit of them, no matter how obnoxious or out of character it may seem at times. It's about how you love to brag about them and annoy your friends cause half the things they say or do really isn't all that sweet and is really overly corny, but you can care less cause that to you is special. It's about how they are the first one you want to talk to when anything good or bad happens, and how you're always learning something new, no matter how long you have been dating.. It's about Changing and being a new person. Not necessarily changing your ways, or who you are, but wanting to be different and a better person, simple cause that person is in your lief and you want to be everything to them.

A wise man once said you can have anything in life if you will sacrifice everything else for it. What he meant is nothing comes without a price. So before you go into battle, you better decide how much you're willing to lose. Too often, going after what feels good means letting go of what you know is right, and letting someone in means abandoning the walls you've spent a lifetime building. Of course, the toughest sacrifices are the ones we don't see coming, when we don't have time to come up with a strategy to pick a side or to measure the potential loss. When that happens, when the battle chooses us and not the other way around, that's when the sacrifice can turn out to be more than we can bear.

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